Raising children who share your worldview . . .

Because most adults have pondered, researched, studied and participated in discussions in order to possess a system of belief, we presume that what we believe is based on truth and should be understood and embraced by our children.  That is a logical assumption, up to a point. We often think that raising a child in our home is enough to produce mini-mes and are sometimes shocked and disappointed to discover our children embrace totally different worldviews than our own.  When I read a blog entitled "If You Want to Raise a Conservative Child" I was pleasantly surprised to find the information different than what I expected.  Being the cynic that I sometimes tend to be, I thought the author was going to be sarcastic and/or critical of conservative parents who attempt to produce "mini mes."    Over the years of working with worldview seminars I have been exposed to many parents who are raising their children in such a sheltered environment that it is scary.  I'm not talking about sheltered in the sense that the children are protected from physical harm (because that is what any good parent does), but rather sheltered in that their children are never exposed to philosophies or beliefs other than those held by their parents, with the assumption that the child will embrace the parent's beliefs without question  into adulthood.  Yet most conservative Christian parents are aware of the huge number of children who grow up and walk away from their parent's faith.  The aforementioned blog contains great advice.

If what we believe is true, then our beliefs will stand up to any and all questions.  If what we believe is not true, then the sooner we find that out, the better.  Having attended a school that emphasized the memorization of information for a test (chew up and spit out), I was never encouraged to ask questions, to question answers, or to give much thought at all to the meaningful and important questions that pertain to life (who are we, where did we come from, why are we here ...).  So, parents, begin having intentional conversations with your children.  Start young, but if your children are already teens, it's not too late.

Three means to encourage a child to embrace their parent's faith as their own are through camps, co-ops, and classes.  Camps like those offered by Summit Ministries and Worldview Academy not only offer great teaching, but they expose your children to other adults who are like-minded, and, perhaps even more importantly, give the students the opportunity to question and discuss important issues with other students.  Co-ops offer a safe and friendly environment conducive to critical thinking, discussion, and oral presentations, all of which help students sort out their beliefs.  I have both a blog and a podcast on co-oping.   The last resource, classes, includes workshops and seminars as well as college classes.  Dual enrolling at a Christian college, especially one with a worldview emphasis, is an avenue worth pursuing.  Bryan College not only offers a very affordable dual enrollment program (only $100 per credit hour), but they have added an 18 day trip to Italy to study fine arts!  (Who wouldn't want to study fine arts in Italy?)

Because you want the best for your children, being careful to guide their experiences is vital, but allowing them to take part in discussions, ask questions, and question answers is just as important (if not more so)!  If you have not jumped to the blog mentioned in the first paragraph, go there now!  I'll put another link right here.  It's worth the read.

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How exciting would it be to win a free iPad mini?  I have entered so many contests in the past and most of the time I wonder if the contests are even legitimate!  This contest is legitimate.  I can not share all of the details with you just yet, but I will soon.  The contest is going to be linked to the grand revealing of a brand new homeschool podcast site called The Ultimate Radio Show!   Boy, do
I wish we had something like this 28 years ago when I began homeschooling!   As soon as this site is launched you will have access to podcasts on a variety of subjects and you do not have to listen online (although you can) because you will be able to download the talks to itunes!!!  How cool is that?

I am also excited that I have been asked to do a weekly show on homeschooling co-op style and I already have several guests lined up to interview for future shows.   There will be podcasts that are worldview related as well!!

So, if you want to win an ipad mini, stay tuned!
If you want to know more about the Ultimate Radio Show, stay tuned!
If you blog and you want to share the contest with your readers, let me know!!

Wonderful, Free, Thought Inducing Resources!!

When I find a resource that is worldview related, I want to share it with the world (or at least with my friends and the readers of my blogs).   Because I write a blog directed to homeschooling co-ops in addition this blog, I find the information shared often overlaps.  For that reason I link one blog to the other.

For those who do not have time to read the entire blog, this is the video I will be sharing and here is a link to a study guide for the video.

The resources that will be mentioned in this blog can be used at home, in a classroom, in the car, with a co-op, individually, at camp, at Sunday School (all of a sudden I feel the urge to stop and write this Dr.Seuss style . . . You can use this in a car, you can use this near and far!   

Recently a ten minute video was posted on Facebook that needs to be shared ... here and there, near and far, in the car . . . well, you get the idea.  Not only should it be shared, but it should be discussed, in depth and, for that reason I have written up a study guide to this video that I will give you for free!  Aren't I nice?  I'm trying to be intentional about living my life for the good of society, for the good of others, and for the good of the kingdom of God (go to 6:33 on the video to catch this reference).  If I did this successfully, you can access the study guide by clicking on the words!  The link to the video is here.

What is it that causes me to appreciate a resource well enough to share it?  Here are a few areas that I find important:

1.  The message is clear and succinct.
2.  The message is well presented, whether in writing or video format.
3.  The message contains information that should be pondered, discussed, and acted upon.

What resources, generally, fit this description?  I will list them below, but I will warn you that they all have something in common.  Rather, I should say, they have some one in common ... John Stonestreet.  Years ago,when John was teaching at Bryan College and working for Summit Ministries, he and I conducted worldview seminars for homeschooling families in the SE and we recommended that parents subscribe to Breakpoint, a ministry started by Chuck Colson.   Breakpoint is a great resources for keeping on top of what is going on in the world. Neither one of us realized at that time that John would become very involved in this ministry, especially after Chuck Colson's death.

John still works with Summit Ministries and Summit offers a two week leadership camp for teens that, in my opinion, should be attended by every teenager and young adult (and there are sessions for educators as well). Before Chuck passed he started a video series called "Two Minute Warnings" that John now oversees.  Here's an introduction to these videos!  In addition to Summit and Breakpoint, John has videos in the "ReEngage Series" and this is where the video was produced that caught my eye, prompting this post.   (This is the video that goes along with the study guide mentioned above.)

If you watch this video with a group, I would suggest pausing the video and discussing the points as they are made.  There is a lot to talk about in this less-than-ten-minute presentation (hence the study guide).

John Stonestreet is a favorite speaker of Summit students and homeschooling parents (and anyone else who happens to be in the audience).  He often speaks at worldview events and homeschool conferences.  If you ever have the opportunity to hear him in person, go hear him.  You will be glad you did!

It Doesn't Take a Rocket Scientist . . .

Should the United States become involved in yet another foreign conflict?

It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that:

· Syria is a Muslim nation.

· Striking Syria will bring about even more animosity and persecution towards Americans living on foreign soil.

· The Koran and Hadith are intolerant of differing belief systems, to the point of imprisonment and death.

· Calling an attack on another country a “strike” does not lessen the implications of the results.

· Calling a strike on a country which is in the midst of political turmoil will cause unwanted results.

· Calling a strike without congressional support is unconscionable.

· Declaring war without congressional support is unconstitutional

· The Syrian conflict has no real connection to U.S. security and there is little our country can do to bring about a peaceful regime.

· A victory on either side in Syria will not bring to power a government friendly to the U.S.

· Years of spending money and sacrificing lives of U.S. soldiers in the    Middle East has not helped to bring peace to those countries.

· Striking Syria as a response to the killing of innocent lives will, more than likely, kill more innocent lives.

I am saddened by the horrific results of the recent chemical attack, and I pray that these nations can resolve their conflicts in a peaceful manner.  However, as terrible as the situation has become, our country needs to be very careful about our response, asking three questions (not necessarily in this order):

1. Is the response constitutional?

2. Is our response moral?

3. Will the response we choose resolve conflict in such a way that lives are saved, freedoms are protected, and our nation’s security is not jeopardized?

If necessary, we need to be like the young man, below, who was willing to take a stand against his government when it was not the popular thing to do!

Vital Advice for Young Adults

When one discovers a well-written book that young adults will enjoy and it's filled with wise advice, one celebrates!  When such a book is found one should purchase multiple copies and share the book with others!

My teenage son, Matt, and I had the privilege of reading this book before it was published.  Not only does this book contain the advice all teens and young adults need to hear, but it's written so well that it's an enjoyable read.  Each chapter is filled with wisdom from differing areas of life and the advice should be pondered, discussed, and then wisely applied.  

It has been interesting to observe young adults attend leadership camp at Summit Ministries who get all excited after hearing the same thing their parents have been telling them for years, as if it were brand new information.  Why is that?  Because someone other than mom and dad are speaking into their lives  Parents, rather than being offended, are quite happy when these truths hit home, regardless of who (or what) finally causes the connection!  

This book is about a grandfather who introduces his grandson to various people who share great advice with him  The grandson is an athlete heading to college on scholarship.  Do not let that specific scenario prevent you from getting this book for daughters or for sons who are not athletes, because the advice applies across the board regardless of a young adult's future plans.  

The author of this book, Ryan Sprague, is also a very articulate, entertaining, and knowledgeable speaker. You might want to contact him to see about having him speak in your area.  You won't be disappointed.

If you have friends who teach, coach, counsel, and/or mentor young adults, tell them about this book   Lastly, if you click the picture of the book you can order it from there!  You won't be disappointed.  

A Must Read . . .

Recently I read and wrote a post on Infidel.  After that I read In the Land of Blue Burqas as well as The Costly Call and Unveiling Islam ... each one adding to the burden I have for those trapped in Islam.  That was last month's reading.

Today I began reading a book on bio-ethics that is a must read for teens, college students, and adults.  It is called How to Be a Christian in a Brave New World and it's co-authored by Joni Eareckson Tada and Nigel M. de S. Cameron.  Containing 12 chapters, this book is also perfect to use in a 12 week co-op!

Each year at Summit students are introduced to the importance of  understanding bio-ethical issues by John Stonestreet.  This book is a great follow-up to that introduction!

The rapidly approaching advances in technology should cause a Christian to ask many questions regarding bio-ethics.  One does not have to be a rocket scientist to understand these issues as they relate to scriptural admonitions, but the lines drawn are not always as black and white as we would like them to be, especially when facts are slanted by the media or when issues are given nick-names that make them sound appealing (i.e. mercy killing, family balance).

Joni Eareckson Tada is the longest living quadriplegic and if anyone can relate to these hard issues, Joni can. In the book's introduction she says of Dr. Nigel M. de S. Cameron, "...Nigel has been an invaluable advisor in helping me to navigate the bizarre new world of biotechnology and the questions it raises about cloning, assisted suicide, infertility treatments, and strange new methods of medical research."

You can order a copy of the book here ....